Some time ago, I vented my frustration about a colleague to someone nearby, not realizing who was listening. Later, my words were twisted and spread, causing a big problem for me. A well-meaning friend then advised me: “Be careful what you share, walls have ears. Only confide in those you truly trust.” That advice changed how I viewed my surroundings and whom I spoke to.

Years later, a similar situation happened again. What I confided in a trusted friend was shared with the person involved, causing more trouble. Though we both had issues with that person, my friend only shared my side, making things worse. Feeling betrayed and isolated, I withdrew and eventually left that job, hoping for a fresh start.

In today’s world, with technology recording calls and messages, privacy is even more fragile. I’ve seen people share private conversations meant for them alone. You might think, “I’m innocent, yet I’m the one suffering,” and blame others for their behavior. But true peace comes from taking responsibility for what we say and do. We must be aware of our surroundings, avoid blind trust, and steer clear of gossip.

I’ve learned to smile and walk away from trouble, sharing my thoughts only with a select few I truly trust. Sometimes, silence really is golden.

Have you ever paid the price for trusting the wrong person? What did it teach you? Have you learned to pause before sharing, or are you still learning the hard way?